6.8.09

《快乐的原因》

记得小时候,有一件事一直让我耿耿于怀。
别家的小孩听到放学钟声时不知多兴奋呢,而我却非常讨厌放学!
原因只有一个---我爸的车。
我爸当时也算是小小的杂货店老板,可是他就是对享受这回事没兴趣。
他长年累月驾驶的交通工具就是那辆又残又旧的三手小货车。
在那个年代,有车阶级不算多,但是在同学们之中就数我爸的车最有历史价值了。
那种小货车发出的引擎声一公里都能听得清清楚楚!
所以每次不必费神张望,我在班上都知道我家的飞机已经顺利降陆了。
坦白说,我当时的确有点自卑。
这个噩梦一直纠缠着我,直到某一天。。。。
我也忘了什么原因,我班的一位少爷竟然搭我家的顺风车回家!
那辆货车不是很干净,刚开始时我真的有点尴尬,怕他不习惯。
但是他的反应却让我从此改观了!
我记得他对我爸说:“uncle,你的车真好坐,我从来没坐过!”
哦!
我明白了!
原来我所拥有的,他没有!
为什么我们每天都要跟别人比较自己所没有的东西呢?
所以才会让自己终生不快乐!
你其实已经拥有了一切---爱你的父母亲、兄弟姐妹、家庭、老师、事业、智慧、健康的身体。。。
应该要高兴才对啊!
知足常乐。对了!

3 条评论:

匿名 说...

Hi, you were very lucky when you were young. You were also very fortunate that you realised your mistake when you were young!

My mum passed away when I was about 5 year old, and I didn't have in any of my memory I was carried by her before as she was bed-ridden after giving birth to me till she passed away. I was looked down very badly by my kampong folks. So I worked very hard (in fact, I was almost not having a chance to study in secondary school, so i had to work part time during my secondary school days to earn money for my school fees and other expenses!) and earned a scholarship to study in varsity. I created many records in my kampong to achieve first in going to varsity, first to get a scholarship, first to get a master's degree etc etc, just to show to those kampong folks who looked down on me before that they were wrong!

So, friend, you were actually a very lcuky person, like a little 'flower' in the green house, haha. Treasure what you had before and what you have now.

黄思安 说...

谢谢你的分享。
大家一起加油!

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